So for the last two years I’ve (28f) had the bad luck of getting with guys that say they are not ready for a relationship but want all the benefits of one. Before, I used to just wait and see if they would change their mind which was very naive of me and never worked out, especially after we would have sex they would simply just stop showing any interest. Last year I decided not to wait for a guy to change their mind anymore but I don’t know if I’m being too picky or harsh. Last night, after talking to this guy (28M) for over a month, I decided to have that talk just to see where we’re both at and what we want out of our dates, either something casual or serious. He instantly said he was not ready for a relationship which bummed me out but respected his decision. However this just makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong. Am I bringing up that conversation too soon instead of letting things just flow? I’m not pressuring anyone to get exclusive with me but I’m also tired of always ending up with indecisive men, it makes me think that there’s something wrong with me which sucks.
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