I [28M] dated this girl [28F] for about 5 months before quarantine hit. On our last date I brought up being exclusive and she said she's not in a good head space (was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, working insane hours and in a masters program). She said I was free to date other people but if I did find someone else that she wants to know.
She went back home about 2 hours away starting mid-March. We talked for about another month and I made two attempts to meet up but both were flaked on and we rescheduled. The last time I reached out it was her birthday and I asked how she was holding up with her cancer and asked if she was doing alright. Essentially I was ghosted and hadn't heard from her since May. Even before the news of her health, she had started to become a little more flaky and taking a while to respond. The other day one of her works was posted on a large IG page. I thought it was neat to see it get so much publicity so I sent her a DM letting her know. I didn't expect a response but to my surprise she messaged back and we talked a for a little. She started sending me snapchats again and now she is back in the city. I fell for this girl and wondered what would happen if quarantine didn't hit.
I'm very tempted to ask her to meet up again since she's been on my mind a lot. To my knowledge she isn't seeing anyone else. My only concern is she flaked the last two times I asked a few months back and then ghosted. I can't stop thinking about her since we chatted. Should I wait to see if she reaches out to meet up since I tried back in April/May. Or just pull the trigger and ask her? She did pretty much ghost me for two months so part of me is telling myself to move on and let it be, but the other part of me really wants to ask her again. I'm just confused as to why she would want to be back in touch after 2 months of silence.
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