EDIT: I no longer respect my ex as much as I used to. I never realised how manipulative he really was. He used to tell me (post break up) that he "could make me fall for him very easily if he wanted to", my emotions and thoughts felt completely controlled and vulnerable to him. He always called and told me that if I decide to pursue something with this guy that I was casually seeing, then it will never work because he's probably a rebound. Again, I realise now, what a joke this is. I was with my ex for 3 years and I've been with my now boyfriend for 5 weeks but I can safely say I feel so much happier with my now bf compared to my ex. Time really doesn't mean much, when the emotions are there. He would try many tactics to get me to meet up with him (post break up) and I fell for his traps time and time again.
He would tell me I had no respect for him or the relationship because I moved on. How can I help that?? it's none of his business what I decide to do after our break up. Besides I never jumped into a new relationship straight away. I was seeing someone and seeing where things go and after realising I was not ready, him and I remained friends until we felt ready to commit 8 MONTHS after me and my ex broke up!!! I think that's plenty time.
I still hope the best for him though because I don't want to see anyone fail in life. But I have lost respect and probably will never speak to him again even if he needs me. Goodbye.
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