im so sick of thinking about her. she clearly rejected me twice, but still my gut still tells me she likes me. idk why but thats what it tells me, im not the type of guy that cant take no for a answer but i dont know why but this is different. so far im distancing myself from her, im not intiating anymore. we agreed to stay friends, she was the one that pushed for it, originally i told her i didnt plan on staying just friends with her but then she pushed and told me that she had "reasons for wanting to stay friends". i changed my mind because i dont want unnecessary drama when school starts again.
but i know i cant force a relationship on her so the best thing i can do now in my opinion is back off and then come back as a friend when my feelings for her are gone. but the thing is i dont think my feelings are gonna go away any time soon. i think about her pretty much all day and she is even in my dreams, i know what your gonna say... "go workout, make yourself busy, etc..." but im busy most of the day. either helping my parents in the garden,playing with my dog, playing video games, working out,eating or many other things.
even when i do all those things she is still on mind and i think the reason is because my gut tells me she likes me even tho she clearly told me herself that she didnt and its so annoying that my gut just cant accept that.
ill see her at school in 1 month and tbh i dont think my feelings for her will be gone by then even if we dont talk at all in the meantime and the moment I'll see her in real life (she will be in my class) all my feelings will come back stronger than ever.
what can i do to at least try to get her off my mind and out of my dreams ?
PS: i just turned 17 and the last time me and my crush talked was last week and she was flirty, which doesnt help my gut to understand that she doesnt like me in that way.
and i know a lot of people think she was playing with feelings the whole time (because she told me she knew from the beginning and still treated me the way she did even tho according to her she always saw me as just a friend) but that still doesnt help me forget about her even tho i know i should.
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