I (32f) cut off a guy (35m) whom I’ve spent the past 4 months getting to know. (Not ghosting). He’s one of the only people I’ve connected with on an emotional level. Someone that I can ask him anything and he’ll answer it. Well, I thought he was clingy but maybe it’s cause he cared and most guys I have dated were a-holes and I’m not used to affectionate behavior? I don’t know. But anyway, he told me he had bipolar and anxiety and it turned me off a little because I don’t know that I could manage that on top of my own struggles. Well he wanted to be more than friends. I did not want a relationship with him because of his bipolar (not because it’s bad but I’ve never experienced that), and also because I thought he seemed clingy. I told him I didn’t think we should continue seeing eachother, well when I cut him off I instantly regretted it and felt sad. I went ahead and met up with him to talk (my idea) and then suggested we try being friends. Well there was chemistry there between us, and the next time we hung out he went to kiss me and I pulled away. I told him I tried friendship but it doesn’t seem like it will work. Well now I regret it. I don’t know. I feel grief almost that I let this go :( I’ve been so sad the entire day and I feel like I cut someone off who deeply cared for me, but yet I know he wanted something more serious eventually. Do you have any tips?
TLdr I cut him off and said we should go our separate ways and now I regret it
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