I'm a 27 (m) who was dating a 24 (f). Everything was going great, we were hitting it off, I was ten times more happier throughout that time period, and I genuinely looked forward to hanging out with her. But after about a month and a half it was unfortunately stopped in its tracks and the past two weeks I've just been holding out hope to hear from her.
She said she lost interest because the intimacy connection wasn't there and that it felt like I didn't want to connect intimately. I felt like an idiot because I was certainly into her intimately. She was drop dead gorgeous. But the problem with me is im shit at getting a feel for how much a woman is into me. I never ever want to force myself onto a female and need a little bit more of a helping hand with clues. It also didn't help my confidence when I noticed her constantly updating her dating profile. For me noticing that made me feel like a place holder. Also when I did try to move past 1st base, to me she seemed to block my moves.
I also had a not so smooth exclusive talk with her, but she was cool about it. Said we still have a lot of time to still get to know each other, but understood what I was trying to say.
I dont think it ended on bad terms. Maybe in the end I seemed a little desperate, but I thought this was an issue that could be fixed thanks to her communication. I also get how she might have been feeling. A female wants it to be spontaneous and in the moment. Telling me that throws the in the moment feeling out the window and makes her feel as if im only doing it because she said so.
I feel like her reason is true but i also don't think the intimacy was the biggest problem. I feel there was a 2nd option she wanted to explore. Do you think she is telling the truth when she was saying it was an intimacy issue. And if it is true do you think thats something she'd get over and give another opportunity too?
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