Not sure if this is the right place to ask for help on this. I recently decided to leave my wife who I’ve been with for eight years (married for three). About eight months ago I asked her why we weren’t intimate anymore and she told me she was asexual. This is something I didn’t know, she always blamed the lack of desire on medication/tired/ etc I think we’ve been intimate maybe eight times?
Anyways I haven’t been happy in years I’ve found myself looking at other women with intent (never did it) because I truly love her but I can barely touch her without her freaking out about it. I’m simply not happy. Am I being shallow? I’m a white male 27 years old. I’ve been with this woman literally my entire adult life. My only real relationship and to be honest I’m nervous. I’ve lost friends over this(mutual friends). There are smaller things that don’t work in the relationship that didn’t help but this was the one that drove me out I think.
Also want to add I tried to get her to go to marriage counseling and when I say intimacy I mean just about any form of it. I can’t even put my hand on her leg while driving without getting scolded. It makes me feel ashamed for wanting sex for having those urges.
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