Long story short, I 25M met a few girls in college who are friends with one of my close friends that’s a 26F, I’ll call her Hanna. Hanna and I have been close friends for awhile and confide in each other on several occasions, but we’re just friends and we’ve established that’s all we will ever be, so she’s basically like a sister to me.
Anyway, one of the girls from our mutual friend group expressed interest to Hanna that she’s interested in me. So, Hanna told me that she’s interested, but has also told me about her past and how we’re probably incompatible. Hanna also told me that this girl hooks up with many people and it usually happens on the first or second date and has stated how openly sex positive she is.
Now, Hanna and I had a conversation about this a couple nights ago and she advised me again about her past, and how she believes her and I would be incompatible as boyfriend and girlfriend. I expressed to her that I tend to agree, but I’d still kind of like to give it a shot and even told her that I wouldn’t mind having sex with her, but hanna advised me against it. She then told me that she would really hate to see me lose my virginity to this girl and thinks I deserve better and should wait for the right one, but said again that it’s my decision.
My question is, I really don’t want to ruin anything as far as the friendship I have with Hanna, for going against what she thinks is best for me, but I’d also like to experience sex, especially that we both know it would happen frequently. It’s one of those situations where I’m probably thinking with the wrong head, but I can’t stop thinking about all of the sex I’d get with this girl. I feel torn about what to do. Advice?
TLDR: I want to have sex with a mutual friend but her (and my) friend advised me against it because she thinks I can do better
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