Its a numbers game. That simple man.
I've read alot of guys on here, particularly guys just new at dating or young say stuff like "What can I do to get a girlfriend?" Or "I've never had a girlfriend and never had anyone attracted to me"...you get the idea.
Ultimately as a man you need to really embrace the Darwinian idea of casting a large net. You will be rejected by most women you approach. Thats just how it be, but you approach enough, and lower your standards you will get results. Just this year I can say I've approached around 80-90 women at bars or clubs and also used online dating. So far this year, I've been with 6 different women. May get to 7 or 8 before the year is out.
The point being is my success ratio is very poor, but doesn't matter simply because I approach enough till something hits.
You may be saying "Well bro I don't know if it can work for me for so-and-so reason because im just THAT ugly..."
Stop it bro. Seriously, stop staying in your comfort zone of your apartment or house and go out and try. Accept you will fail most of the time, but inevitably you will hit something.
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