Over a year ago I was pining over someone that by every sense of the word was not matching my energy (or even his, rather. Love bombed then dipped).
So naturally I came here to see advice— do I give up? Forget about him and move on? It was excruciating. I felt like I had to try just to see.
Most people were like “dead. Done. Move on” which is solid. But someone was like “sure, you can reach out. Getting rejected builds character” and then I did- and obviously you were all right. But looking back on it— it really did build character. It was humbling, I had to reflect a lot, I realized my obsession behavior was something I need to address. I’m happy I sought out this information and you guys set it straight.
Anyway, thanks all. Dating advice I now support: Getting rejected isn’t bad with time and space, and it actually can be good.
Onward and upward, friends!
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