These tips won’t apply to everyone but I feel they can be helpful and things iv come across or experienced myself over the years.
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don’t try to build yourself up prior to meeting someone on an app.
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arrive early. Relax and walk around / breath slowly lol it’s not that important. Most people you meet will not be in your life for a long time.
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don’t assume you’re going to have a connection in person based on banter over text / the apps.
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Choose places you’re comfortable going for dates. It’s important that you’re in an environment or doing something fun that you actually enjoy with or without that person.
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don’t go in with a set of questions you’re going to ask and play it out in your head.
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don’t go into a date with a time limit. If this is your future wife or husband you’ve just met you should be down for anything.
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you’re not going to be perfect on every date. You’re going to answer some question the wrong way or project yourself bad from time to time and that’s nothing to be upset about.
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you can do everything right and it also might not work out.. they might simply not feel the vibe or you could remind them of someone they despise or turns them off and you’re pretty much dead on arrival lol
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always assume the other person isn’t completely into you and that’s fine. Some people need more time with someone to grow their feelings so you should treat each situation that way. Come on too strong and they’ll feel uncomfortable about meeting up again. I’d say in most cases once you’ve dated enough the girl will want a second date 80-90% of the time.
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you should always go in for the kiss if you’re feeling the vibe. Just be respectful and not forceful.. if you’re uncertain it’s okay to ask the other person. You don’t want a platonic situation.
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expect them to look a little worse than their profile and be okay with that when meeting.
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if you have sex or kiss on the first date your odds are better of a second date but also it doesn’t necessarily mean she or he is fully interested in you or that they could lose that interest a few hours later.
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you should not be trying to win them over with flowers or gifts. That person will ultimately think less of them or take them for granted. You shouldn’t go into a date with that mindset ever. You’re still learning about the person and you shouldn’t be certain that you’re going to like them that early on.
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you shouldn’t be agreeing to dates early on at each other’s places. If a guy is inviting a girl to a date at his place he’s likely not viewing the girl as a relationship prospect.
I could add a lot more but these are the most basic things one should take into a date.
Hope this helps in some way! I enjoy helping out here when possible.
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