Asking your friends for dating advice, how much is too much before it becomes annoying? Does it become more annoying if there’s an obvious lack of progress?

I have a fairly varied mixed gender friend group. I hang out with them a lot. I’m 28.

I’ve never dated, but have asked out a lot of people who said no, and I’m trying to change that by asking my friends what to do. I’ve had a few of my friends who are women go over and basically redo my tinder profile with new pics a few times.

I’ve also had a friend actually go out with me to a club because she said she was really good at telling if people were interested and could help me out. She was pretty apologetic at the end of the night because before she went she was pretty insistent that as long as you have fun and dance there will be people who want to interact with you. Well we did and it didn’t really work other than her telling some guys to fuck off.

I’ve done fashion advice as well. I’ve had friends take me shopping and help me buy stuff cause I’m just like…not good at it.

But I’m starting to get the sense people are getting annoyed that nothing is working? Like I asked the friend I went out with if she’d like to do it again and she said she had fun but, no I probably won’t have success and she feels bad about that.

I’ve also asked 2 of my friends who helped me with my dating profile if they could help again and they responded basically “we’ve already redone it a few times, I don’t think there’s a reason to redo it again”

I’m starting to worry this is annoying at this point and a few of my friends have pointed out I’m very exasperated ways, now I’ve mostly stopped, that they can’t really give me dating advice if I can’t find dates.

So I know it’s kind of annoying but like… I obviously can’t figure this out on my own, or I already would have.

Should I keep asking for advice and trying, or is annoying?

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