Sooo, there’s this girl from work. I’ve known her for about 2-3 years now, but things kind of changed a little less than a year ago. There was a more flirty vibe in our encounters, and that was started by her. Whenever we were outside or work, which was always group settings, she would be increasingly more flirty. Touched my chest, various compliments.
And then she would reel it back in which confused me. It’s a male-dominated work environment, and she would sometimes flirt with other co-workers, which made question if she was really into me or did she just like the attention.
I wanted more, but I was always subtle about it because we were co-workers. We never really texted that often, I’m not that great of a texter.
Months of this continue, until she transfers and we no longer see each other routinely (this was around September). The occasional social media like, and we maybe texted once or twice. I thought things had fizzled out.
We both were at a co-worker’s birthday party in December, and it seemed to have re-ignited interest. Like nothing had changed in the time between. I had to leave early, she had to as well. We caught the same uber and ended up getting drinks together at another bar, she was the one who wanted to grab drinks. Great vibes, great time. She asked me if I was real, she said she was “ride or die”. At the end of the night, she told me to text her more.
I started texting her about 1-2 times per week. I always text first. In January, I told her that I wanted to see her, and she said she was really busy the next two weeks but maybe after. Still texted 1-2 times per week, everything seemed good. I texted her Friday night a “How was your day text”, and got left on delivered for the first time ever by her. Texted her Monday night that I really wanted to see her, and for her to let me know which day she is available this week. She replied Tuesday morning just stating that she fell asleep early last night, but completely dodged the availability question. What did I do wrong? Is it safe to say that she isn’t interested?
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