I found a girl who feels like a perfect match for me (she has everything I was looking for in a partner). I spoke with her family, and we started to make things serious, planning a wedding in a few months.
However, I recently discovered two things and need some help or advice from anyone who has experienced something similar.
With her, I realized that I struggle with retroactive jealousy/OCD (a condition where you feel jealous about your partner’s past and your mind creates obsessive loops about what they did before you). The problem is that she has had a lot of experience before me much more than I’m comfortable with ( and this thing is killing me inside) and the second thing Is it normal that after spending time with her or with our families, when I go back home, I feel very sad, empty, and uneasy like a voice in my head telling me, “Be careful, think before marrying her”? ( i know it seems stupid but this voices never stop ). What confuses me is that these bad feelings happen every time I leave, but they completely disappear when I’m actually with her.
Thank you.
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