20F here & I’ve never been in a relationship. Are these good signs?
He has said that we need to take things slowly, as although he has feelings he needs to make sure they’re genuine & this is what he really wants, as he does not wish to lead me along. We’ve been talking everyday & have been spending time together, mainly at each others houses.
We’ve hugged, and last time we saw each other, when he came to mine for the first time, after leaving he said “I feel I didn’t get enough hugs from you, I didn’t want you to feel uncomfortable in your own home”.
We’ve hugged, held hands (for nearly 4 hours) & even cuddled while at his.
He said “I feel you needed to develop a level of trust with me to want public affection” - which he said after I said about him never making me feel uncomfortable & that if happily hug him in the middle of the street.
He’s keen to book some annual leave from work at the end of Jan to travel to another part of the country for a few days to meet some of my family & spend some time with them.
He’s invited me to go on holiday abroad with him, even to his home country & did offer to pay for my passports renewal (£96 - which I did decline).
He used a variety of sweet emojis in our messages.
He asks to video call to “see my face” & said my passport picture looked “lovely”.
He’s wanting to buy me a Christmas present, suggesting perfume or a cardigan.
I should also say how kind, caring, understanding & respectful he has been. I’m currently awaiting assessment & treatment for an Ed (which he is fully aware about) and he’s previously offered to come to the dr with me, as well as always being there to listen when I’ve been struggling with my mental health due to my Ed & has said that he’s “putting down” the foods which I used to enjoy eating for when I’m in recovery (if we can get there).
I could go on, but I’m just curious, are these positive signs for us? I really feel like I’ve met a lovely, genuine person, however there is a large age gap between us, which is one of the reasons he wishes for us to take things slowly, but could this really be leading to something? I’d love to hear folks thoughts…
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