Me (26M) and my girl (24F) always had some issues with this specific coworker she had. She never did anything with him while we were together but they would talk a lot outside of work. he was always in the way and she thought it was rude to just cut him off. (Sounds typical ik) but then we broke up and some time passed but, we were still kind of talking. She admitted to me that she slept with him in the time apart and she told me out of respect because we were starting to talk more again. And I do respect that she told me and I’m glad she did. More time passed and we’ve talked about it a lot and now we’re in the process of trying to get back together but she still works with this dude every single day and sees him everyday and she wants to continue to be his friend and strictly friends but I don’t even want her to associate with him literally at all unless she REALLY has to talk to him at work. She’s agreed to do that as well but I can tell she doesn’t want to. And it took a while for her to agree with me. But she will. I just thought out of respect for us she wouldn’t care about cutting him off completely but she says it’s cuz she doesn’t have many friends but like come on. Idk I just need some other perspectives like, am I just being dumb and letting that screw me over and being stupid cuz she did something with someone I always had a problem with? but we weren’t together when she did it but now it’s different cuz she actually did what I never wanted to happen and now she has to still see him everyday. Is it mature to believe she’ll cut off all ties and be cold and only talk to him when she has to or am I just being a lil b1ch and letting her get her way ? like am I just being dumb for even continuing to talk to her and thinking it might be ok?
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