I am at 29F who has been in a LDR with a 27M for 3 weeks.
He has been kind, pleasant, understanding, and easy to talk to. He has done nothing to offend me.
I don’t know why I am feeling hesitant now. I thought I wanted a relationship but now that I’m in one I feel weird.
I really enjoyed my solitude when I was single and even though I wasn’t in a romantic relationship, I would still receive love in different ways from my friends and family. I have also recently paid off my debt so now I have set financial goals for myself to save for my emergency savings and for a down payment for my future house. I want to become a home owner at some point.
I know it’s long distance, but putting in the effort to communicate and then knowing in the possible future that we would have to pay for travel to see each other, and the fact that I am already in my career and he is not is making feel very unsure of him. He is currently working, but at a minimum wage job. I understand money isn’t everything, but I also don’t want to be worked down to the bone trying to financially support us (and possible future children) if I marry him. I have made a suggestion for him to go back to school to become a nurse. He said he wants to try phlebotomy first, save money, and then go to school to be a nurse. Nothing wrong with that, but it makes me feel unsure if he’s really serious about pursuing it.
Also observing the marriage between my parents, grandparents, and my friends, it just doesn’t seem all that appealing to me to be honest.
Is this normal? I have been having thoughts to break it off.
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