The guy I was seeing for 3 weeks broke the news to met a few days ago (he's Indian) that his parents didn't want him dating someone outside his ethnicity (he had a recent phone call with them).
I can't tell if he knew this before we started dating or not.
If so, I'm confused why he would've started dating me in the first place?
He made 2 comments:
- Most Indian families wouldn't be ok with their children dating outside of their race
> So then ... why didn't he clarify this with them before we started dating
2) "It was only 3 weeks" the period we were dating for
> 3 weeks is enough time to get attached / catch feelings / etc.?
He said something about being 'friends for life' but I can't tell if he is being genuine.
Also my friend told me he was using me for sex and when I confronted him with this he said 'what we had was special' and to 'give him more time'.
Basically he said he would try to convince them over the phone / in-person in his upcoming India trip.
We would hangout multiple times a week in those 3 weeks, maybe at least 2 - 3 times / week, usually initiated by him
*I'm Asian by the way
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