So I got in a fight with my friend recently.
A lil back story so we had a situationship in the past and then we talked decided to be friends then it led to FWB now we are here. We talked previously about better communication and on a deeper level but and I thought I was doing better because that is something I struggle with but I guess how I was communicating wasn’t what he wanted. He is 25M I’m 21F and we have known each other for a year now.
It started after I asked him if we could talk and he responded “we could’ve talked the last time you were here but you never want to talk”. I thought that was rude considering he’s the one who wanted more communication and that’s what I was trying to do. So it just went back and forth he was mostly coming at me I kept it more calm and understanding because that’s just who I am I don’t think arguing gets anywhere. He even was saying maybe we should end the friendship over this. Then I was just done after this going on for 5 days I said “ I need space to breathe because this has been a lot but I’m not cutting you off you can always text me if you need anything”. Then he asked “can respond or if this was my way of telling him to leave me alone”. I didn’t respond then he said “I want to talk if it’s okay and isn’t too hard on you rn”. I said again that “I want space but I’ll text him when I’m ready to talk”. He said that is was find and I respected your decision I’m here to talk when your ready and have some feelings I want to discuss thank you for communicating with me”. I left it as that and that was after he said not to expect a deep conversation with him.
What feelings is he wanting to discuss now?
Why would he blow up like that over me just asking to talk?
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