I'm beginning to think something is wrong with me and I just want some feed back. Semi long story.
I consider myself a decent looking girl but i keep attracting the wrong type of guys. I'm from a small town next to a city of about 100k.
Started out in highschool. I was of age, finally wanted to start dating. At 17 the first guy i dated once turned out to be a stalker.
I was trying to find myself here in college. From then college was a mix. Lazy druggies, drunk metal heads, white knight nerds, as well as handsome sex addicts. I couldnt attract anyone worth dating more than 1 date. If i wanted a relationship i could get one but it would be.....horrible. So i turned online and played an online game. Found a guy friend who flirted back and forth for years. Honestly felt content ...he wasnt really a boyfriend but it felt nice. We talked about everything....until i found out he lied about his entire life to me. Entire. Life. I was thrown off (think this caused me to have trusting problems)
I graduate and now im attracting married men. Friends boyfriends. Im not the flirty type so im wondering why they are all coming at me. About 5 that i can think of. Married men or men with kids. (Im not ready to be a mom). Major turn off.
Ive tried talking to men first....always ends up they are in a relationship.
So i turn to tinder. At one point forcing myself to date a new guy every month. Go on a few dates....find out they are crazy. 1) into meth 2) likes torture devises 3) told me he wanted me for booty call after 3rd date 4) still in a relationship. 5) freaked out like he owned me after 2 online conversations. Just to name a few.
Wtf. Ive been told to just go to places where i have hobbies but there isnt much in a small town. Most people are into hunting and fishing....I'd like to have 1 thing in common and i feel like i have a developed amount of hobbies. I'm happy with myself in that aspect
I feel like I'm going to be single forever unless i settle. I dont feel like I'm picky having some standards. 1) be decent looking/take care of yourself. 2) dont have kids 3) have 1 thing in common.
I dont know what to do and any advise would be helpful. Most of my friends just tell me 'it will happen when it happens dont rush it.' But what the hell....they are one to talk. I'm the only single one. Honestly considered one of those match making marriages.
Edit: Take care of yourself means... dont be 600 pounds and never bath type of person.....d9nt be a super drug addict...ect... I dont care if they are in shape or not. Thats not what that statement is about
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