I’m feeling like I’m never good enough, there are so many options that every guy I’m interested in thinks there is someone better out there. I’m super sweet and caring but I am very quiet and I seem to attract guys that just want to use me for a while but never date because of my personality I guess. I just want someone to accept me and not think of me as just an option. I was extremely hurt by my ex coworker, who spent an entire year hanging out with me for 4-5 days a week, we slept together, we travelled outside the country, went camping a ton, it felt like a relationship but he really had no other friends so he always asked me to hang out, and I always agreed. I wish I had the willpower to leave sooner. He moved from another state so didn’t know many people and used the excuse of not knowing if he would stay here which is why he didn’t want to date. Stupid of me to keep hanging on to him for a year. He suddenly got distant, and a month later he was in a relationship with a someone else. I was devastated. I decided to try dating apps and it’s been such a struggle, I’m becoming so depressed seeing all my friends in relationships. And nothing working for me. Went on a date with a guy from tinder and he was so attractive and smart, had a good career. I thought he was a good a match and would accept me as he was way more introverted than me, and after a month of seeing him, said he isn’t interested in dating anyone, but is confused because he was really attracted to me and liked hanging out with me but just moved here recently also and only wanted fwb. He became distant eventually and two weeks after we had hung together last, he posts a pic on fb with a girl. Turns out she is a 20 year old model and is now in a relationship with her. I don’t know why I’m so undateable.
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