Been single for a few months and finally feel ready to go out and meet new people! Been doing online dating for a bit and been on a couple dates with a few different guys now.
I’m realizing that i have the bad habit of liking guys way too soon. We’ll have one great date and all of a sudden I’m smitten. I totally put them on a pedestal even though i barely know them. I stalk their social media. I check my phone often to see if they contacted me. I’m anxious when i don’t hear from them in a timely matter. I imagine what our future dates might be like. I’m setting myself up to get hurt every time I’m rejected if i keep getting so caught up so soon. I’d like to approach things much more casually and not think anything of it till we are much further along. I don’t want to go into things with any expectations anymore, but that’s easier said than done.
So how do you guys avoid liking someone too much and too fast? How can i stop expecting so much so soon and learn to not expect anything from any guy.
Thanks :)
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