I'm 21M, asked out 25F.
According to the internet, asking her to dinner was a bad idea and after thinking it over, I can see why. While she was very receptive and didn't hesitate to say yes. I'm debating whether to change it to something like bowling or something, or if I'm just freaking out for no reason. I haven't dated in over 3 years so I'm extremely nervous about getting back out there and even then I have never asked out anyone I didn't know all that well. We've had a few decently long conversations but that's about it. So I don't really know anything about how to have a good first date.
I feel as though I'm just scaring myself for no reason and maybe to just stick with it. Or if it is really that bad of an first date maybe just change to bowling, which is an activity I really enjoy and its much more engaging. But I'm afraid that it may look flaky or that I'm having second thoughts or I'm embarrassed to be seen with her (She is transgender) which is the ABSOLUTE last thing I want.
I just really want this to go well I'm really into this girl but I'm having a tough time keeping a level head right now.
Should I just stick with dinner? Or change it? And how to change it without coming off negatively.
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