There are so many mixed opinions on here it’s insane. Just because they’re a dry texter doesn’t necessarily mean they’re not interested. It might mean they’re a bad texter. Just because they don’t initiate the convo 100 percent of the time doesn’t mean they’re not interested. There is so much confusion in the dating world. They might be too shy to initiate cause they don’t want to seem annoying/clingy. Then the person on the other side thinks that the other person isn’t interested so they won’t initiate and then no one gets anywhere. I think the advice of “If they’re interested, they will find a way to talk to you” is really insightful but also really dumb. No one is the same. Everyone is afraid of getting hurt and will put their shields up and many will assume that those who are guarded simply are not interested. It’s just a cycle. Advice is something to consider. Not a rule. You should probably take this advice with a grain of salt too. Communication is key. Stop trying to guess.
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