i’ll keep it short. i met a relatively attractive, educated man in my town. we spent 10 days talking when i was like dang.. why hasn’t he set up a date yet? in an effort to better understand him, i did some googling (as i always do, gotta play it safe) and on his instagram found that he just accepted a head coach position at a college halfway across the country. he posted on snap saying “until i see you again” to our town but has continued to lie to me, saying he’s just visiting family for 3 weeks and has a lease, etc in my town. he says i’m his dream girl and feeds me weird things like “i’m not moving, but if i was i’d ask you to come with me” we haven’t even met yet.
first; anyone here, esp women have any idea why this man continues to talk to me even though he’s thousands of miles away? we don’t sext so he’s getting very little from me other than flirting and banter. it kind of weirds me out.
two; how should i confront him? i obviously have to tell him i know the truth. also is this a definite dealbreaker for you?
i’m newly out of abuse as of a few years ago and gaining my confidence so don’t mind me as i figure this out
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