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Hey guys,
We are trying to have a holistic understanding of Game. We want to target everything that is going to help you become a high-value guy from fashion to nutrition to online behaviors. I see a lot of you making these MASSIVE mistakes, which are turning you into low-value guys. Hopefully, these tips serve as a course-correcting for you guys to become high-value guys. Unfortunately, a lot of people who give free advice out there give it without an adequate context. Therefore, one can misunderstand their information.
In this post, I will go more in-depth on How to overcome being obsessed with one girl. I plan on writing a three-part guide, Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. This week we will talk about when is the right time to end things for good with her. My goal is for you to overcome wasting your time and to pursue girls who will reciprocate your interest.
1- If you keep having a toxic on/off relationship
Many guys won't admit this. However, people who are in toxic relationships have low-self-esteem. If you keep going back to the same girl, this means you have exhausted your options. If she keeps retaking you, it means that she is likely letting you stay either as a pitty or to take advantage of you in some way. You should be very careful with this type of relationship since it can turn toxic where its mostly arguments and fights.
2- If you can't see other girls because you feel guilty
This scenario happened to me. I had a girlfriend, and we broke up. Afterward, I felt guilty about meeting other girls. I remember I was at Times Square and could have talked to multiple girls but did not put in the effort of meeting other girls. Later that night, a buddy introduced me to a girl at Biergarten, and I couldn't talk to her usually. I kept thinking about my ex-GF. After a while, I realized that this was becoming a problem, and I needed to deal with it.
3- If you keep reminiscing about the "good times" while you are living "bad times."
Many guys have told me, "Hey man, I'm currently in a rocky relationship. Despite this, I remember all the good times I had with my girlfriend, and I want it to return to that." However, you guys fail to see that there can be no return! Since she would have to put an active effort to return to those as well. Nevertheless, if she isn't, then it's going to be an uphill battle. How are you going to make her go back to something she doesn't' want to? You need to ponder on this question.
4- If she no longer respects you
This statement hurts many guys. Despite this, you need to learn to see it and eventually accept it. Does your girl who you used to cherish no longer respects you? For instance, I remember with my ex-GF, she would make up all this Game when we went to Angelika film theatre. We did go to see the movie. However, she kept playing all sorts of games. It got annoying at the time. Nonetheless, I could tell she had lost a lot of respect she used to have for me. Therefore, at that moment, I started to become firmer on my resolve to end our relationship.
5- If she no longer has time for you
This action should be a big red flag for you. If a girl doesn't have time for you, then it means you are no longer important for her. For instance, I had my ex-GF, who started hanging out with other friends or even seeing other people. For me, this was where I drew the line. I also started seeing other girls, and we moved on. If you are in this spot, this means that your girl is no longer into you and wants to have her options open. You are no better than the orbiter who she is stringing along in case she can't find someone better.
Conclusion
I hope you guys learn from this list. You obsessing over one girl is very low value. You need to stop wasting your time and find it. Hopefully, you guys can start doing your self-examination as soon as you get the change and reflect on how you can start living a new and fantastic life with girls who want to appreciate you for who you have become! Ask yourself:
"Do I overthink about the good times when they are gone?"
"Does my girl still respects me?"
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