The heart doesn’t understand love until it is fully committed in the first relationship. It will understand a crush and a sexual lust, but not love. Love is an unexplainable event that will change you as a person. It will make you resent people, be jealous of people, love people, and anything in between. When you’re in love you will change. Your sexual desires, the friends you hangout with, and your priorities at the time go away. It is as if this one person completes you. The thing that’s bad is that the heart believes this about everybody. It’s amazing how you can share your deepest secrets with someone you met a few weeks ago that you wouldn’t tell your childhood friends or your mother. But everything comes to an end. Whether it’s a breakup, divorce, or by death, one of you in the relationship will go. And here’s my advice for you and what to expect.
Here’s the things that literally happen to you during a breakup:
Your heart sinks, it hurts Your stomach becomes completely empty and you don’t want to eat for a long time You just want to lay around and do nothing You keep thinking about the breakup You will cry periodically, but if you’re a man you’ll try to hold it back You’ll seek attention extremely.
Here’s what my advice is to you. Now if you’re in a breakup right now UNDERSTAND that you will not like the advice i tell you and you’ll reject it, that’s because you just broke up and you’re denying it. Trust me it happened 2 times for me until i finally listened. After my third breakup.
Here’s my advice and it works: Get out and focus on you and/or your friends. If you stay at home and do nothing, you’ll fall deeper to depression. You need to get your mind off of things.
Block them from all contacts. YOU WILL eventually think it’s a good idea to text them and do whatever possible to fix things or yell at them, and that’ll push you two further apart. Trust me i fucked up twice doing this. You need to accept the circumstances and remove them from all contacts. Delete them from your life.
(for men) You need to keep it to yourself. Do not look for attention. Be a man and deal with it. Be sad on your own time but don’t let other people know about it. You don’t want that reputation. and if she hears you complaining to others and venting to others, it turns her off.
Now here’s some facts about breakups you need to hear but don’t want to hear. I hope you actually listen to these.
It’s over. You aren’t going back.
Move on. It’s as simple as that.
Love hurts and you have to deal with it. It’s not fair.
Life’s not fair. But who said it would be.
The only person that loves you unconditionally and will always come back to you is God. That’s it. So focus on Him. Honestly if you aren’t a christian or are one, God is the best tool for a breakup. It clears up so many questions and makes you happier.
I’m sorry if this didn’t help, I just thought it might. I hope you will be better or maybe pass this on to someone else. Thank you.
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