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So I was in an abusive relationship five years ago which destroyed me, and I became completely asexual for that time, repressed my emotions, and turned down a lot of people.
Well, two weeks ago all of that changed when I was hanging out with my best friend of many years and he told me that maybe the reason why I was so completely emotionally f*cked beyond recognition is because I was lonely and wanted someone. Very uncomfortable four hour conversation whilst driving around, but he convinced me to open myself back up to the prospect of a relationship.
So I started talking to this girl I work with, flirted a little, dropped and rumor, hung around her, waited a week for her to hear and think and asked her out. Flat out no, but at least she had the decency to not string me along.
That is basically the only girl I know my age since I withdrew so heavily from the female section of society for so long.
My question is, how the hell do I meet girls without just approaching them randomly (which is hard because I have a hands off policy if she is working since she is basically obligated to talk to me)? Or do you advise that?
Because confidence isn't so much an issue as availability of people my age.
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