Hi, i’m new on this subreddit. TL:DR down below.
I’m 24M and she’s 22F. I have this friend that i knew from when i was 13, we had same hobbies and stuff, but never been close until we turned 16, and i never knew he had a sister before.
Basically i met the sister around early 2015 at a prep school for scholarship to japan. And we talked a lot about those mock exam questions and some private life matters, then i learned that she has a brother which is my friend.
She and i have been close ever since, but i went to japan mid 2016 and she didn’t. She had feelings for me, and i always looked after her ever since. But since i went to japan, a lot had happened, and since i thought if we start dating, it would be her first time being in a relationship and obviously it would be LDR. And i was afraid of having my relationship with her brother being weird. So i decided to date another person.
fast forward, 4 years have passed, and she told few months ago that she had feelings for me until 3 years ago. And of course i still care for her after all these years. And around a month ago, she called me at 11:30 pm. I knew sth had happened since she rarely calls me.
And she was crying when i answered her call, (FYI, her brother moved to another city, so she’s basically alone, and i’ve returned to my home country).
I immediately drove to her place and found out she was drunk, and smells like alcohol, she was drunk, YES SO DRUNK.
She hugged me directly and wouldnt let go, she cried so much, i’ve never seen her cry like that before in my entire life, and when she told me what happened, i felt so painful, it was excruciating looking at her crying because of another guy.
I looked after her that night, cleaned her throw up, and just accompanied her till she calmed down.
Fast forward (again). She just got a new job, and just moved to the new company, and was busy for the past few weeks, then i asked her out, telling her that i wanna get her out of reality once in a while and spoil her the whole day, she agreed, so we went out yesterday. And she told me her brother is coming back home that day.
Then her brother called, and he asked me to come to their place after the date, so i did. We talked a lot And i told him about my feelings, which was weird, but he didn’t disapprove. He said i think my sister would be better off with you, than some other guy. And i thought to myself (wow, i thought this conversation would be super weird, and you would reject me). But he didn’t he was fine with it, but now i don’t know how to act around him. And do i even have a chance to get her? Please tell me something.
As promised, TL:DR
I’m in love with my friend of 10 years’ sister. And he is fine, and support my feeling. It’s weird tbh, since i thought he would reject me. But i don’t know how to act around my friend after the conversation. And do i even have a chance of getting her?
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