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I will try to keep this short. I am a college student who got a summer retail job. Met a girl there who I find attractive, but her attitude puts me off sometimes. The attraction, at least physically, is mutual too, because there have been plenty of times where I catch her glancing at me, we're standing close together, she brushes past me, etc. Even some flirting and teasing. There have definitely been days where you could feel the sexual tension between us
We worked together yesterday and today. Yesterday was pretty normal, lots of glancing at each other, some flirting/teasing, etc., though I should point out that I've also been making an effort to keep some distance between us because a) I'm still not 100% sure about her and b) I don't want to make things awkward at work
Today was different though. Again, I was just keeping my distance, but I picked up from the start that she was doing the same thing. At first if I talked to her/asked her something (work-related) she was fine and polite, but as the shift wore on she actually got short with me. For example, I was looking for a brochure for a customer and asked her where I might find it, and she just goes "I dunno, over there probably" in an annoyed voice. There were a couple of other moments like this as well. It was like she pulled a 180 from yesterday
Throughout our shift I felt something, but I'm not sure what it was. It felt like sexual tension, even though we were both staying away from each other and she started being snappy with me later on. It wasn't necessarily awkward either. I just know I sometimes feel confused about how I feel about her, and I wonder she's similarly confused. For example, today whenever I felt that "tension", my thoughts were "I have no idea why I'm feeling this, I think you're cute but I can't stand you sometimes"
I don't think I'll see her again for a few days, but I have no idea what that was at work today or what I'm even feeling. Any thoughts are appreciated
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