So I met this girl off tinder 2,5 weeks ago, we only see each other 3 times, but spend a lot of time together since the 3 times we slept together. This girl is driving me insane. She says she really cares about me, text me she misses me so much, calling me cute name, she even said she loved me which I find really weird since it's very fast but I guess she is like that and like to show her affection. I haven't told her yet. But clearly told her I would be in a relationship with her anytime, and suggest her to stop going on dates and we could be a thing. Also, she is not doing that just to being nice to me because she is writing me those messages late at night when I'm not even texting her or when I'm at work. My problem is at the same time, she is finding excuses not to see me, I mean we only met 3 times in like 20 days.. and I ask her almost every day if she wants to hang out. (She is in town 4 days a week but still). And I know if I don't ask her out to hang out she won't ask me, NEVER. She is also leaving many messages on read or taking one day to respond. But on some days she is spamming me on all on my socials because I didn't reply in one hour... I'm just so confused. I also think she is dating other men / have a LOT of guy friend wich it's completely fine since we aren't a couple even tho I would love too. She told me yesterday now she only wants to date me, but left me on reading when I ask her out to hang out tonight... I don't know what to do, if I stop messaging her I'm scared to lose her she can get all the men she want it's really the most beautiful woman I ever met, but I'm also afraid of messaging her and she feels harassed.
I'm also so scared of getting hurt. I dream about her every night. I look at my phone every minute to see if she has sent me a message, I literally do nothing all-day all I do is listening to music while thinking about her and waiting for her texts. At my job I'm unproductive stressing about her reply and thinking about her when I'm with my friends I just talk about her, It's very unhealthy and I'm going to get destroyed if our path separates. I try to go on a date with another girl to see if it would help but I just can't fake it, she saw immediately I wasn't all there, thinking about her. The fact that I'm making a post on Reddit about her is making me feel like I'm going crazy. I have had my share of relationships in the past but never something like that.
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