About a year ago (October 2019) I ran into an old friend from years ago (we’re both 20 now). I was floored by how beautiful she was and we talked for 10-15 minutes and when I said I had to get going she seemed kinda silent and wasn’t like (okay, i’ll see you around! or anything) just quiet like she was waiting. I didn’t think anything of it until afterwards. Did she want to me to ask for her number or something? Didn’t know if that was the case or perhaps she is just a little bit awkward. Anyway a few days later she pops up on my ig people you may know tab, which is great bc I wanted to talk to her again. After dming her we talk for a bit and whatnot and I ask if she wants to hangout and she says Sounds fun! We get lunch at an on campus restaurant and talk for a bit. She seemed pretty nervous when we first met up but I was too bc meeting anyone for the first time has been made me anxious before. When I left I gave her a hug and she seemed happy. I continued to snapchat her but it seemed like she wasn’t interested in talking to me. A few more days later it comes up we both wanted to try out this cupcake place, and I offer to take her. She says sure and we make plans. I’m driving over to the place and we have some pretty good conversation, I notice that she seems SUPER nervous. At one point she said “LOOK I HAVE MY WALLET!” out of nowhere (i’m pretty sure bc of nerves) but I found it hilarious on the inside. It’s at this point I start to think she might like me. The thing that throws me off is that when I’m talking sometimes it looks like she’s bored and waiting for me to shut up lol. But after that day I didn’t really talk to her anymore. I wasn’t interested in a relationship bc my grandpa had passed away a day earlier and school was getting incredibly difficult. For months we didn’t talk and she didn’t initiate anything, so I figured maybe she wasn’t interested in me after all and to her we were just friends. About four months later, we run into each other (literally) which makes it the most awkward encounter ever for me LOL. But both of us kept walking and I thought that was the end of it. About 5 minutes later she texts me saying she thought she just ran into me. Again, I felt awkward about this whole situation so we had a short conversation and that was the end of that. Fast forward to now, I feel like I am ready to take on a relationship, feeling like I have a good grip on life now. My question is, did the time between us talking kill any chance we may have (provided she even likes me)?
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