So my friend has liked me for a while... at first I tried to shrug it off because he’s 20 I’m 24 I just thought it was weird but he was always good to me.. but he neve made advances just confessed to me how he felt. The other day he told me he’s scared because of how well we get along because of a past relationship and he doesn’t know what to do.
Then last night he got into a huge fight w his mom and lost control so he called me today and he told me not to get emotionally invested because of the stuff going on at home I was upset but he stayed on the phone w me and talked it out and expressed he does like me and just wants to take everything slow and stay friends. He also said that doesn’t mean it won’t ever happen... just not now, but we can still see each other all the time.. he said he just doesn’t want to ever lose control in front of me or anything..
We have a trip coming up for his bday a private airbnb where we planned to maybe take things to the next level.. now I’m having second thoughts. Although he says not to I know I’m already emotionally invested and if we do hang out something will most likely happen and I’ll be more attached.
I’m just scared of being hurt even though he says he wants to do the exact opposite... I mean he said if anything happens we will stay normal and I don’t casually date which he knows for damn sure.
So how do I suppress everything I’m feeling for the time being? I like him but I don’t want to push either.. I’m just confused.
Tl;dr Friend has family issues... we both like each other but now he said not to get emotionally attached but I already am. How do I stick it out?
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