Recently I have been having an inner dialogue with myself about what I (M 21) am looking for in a woman and I am starting to wonder if my expectations are too high. I have never been in a legit relationship but I have had several flings/talking stages to this point in my life ranging from a couple of weeks to a couple of months. I am pretty exhausted with this trend and I am hoping for something more solid at this point in my life.
One girl, who I have been hooking up with on and off for the last 9 months is cool and I find her decently attractive. Along with that, on our few dates and time spent together aside from hooking up, I have enjoyed spending time with her.
To this point though, I have sort of kept the relationship at its current casual stage without ever really expecting us to date. But even then, I can sense that she likes me a good amount and would be happy to take things to the next level if I wanted to.
To this point, I hadn't really wanted to escalate things, because I figured I could eventually find someone a little better looking and/or someone with a personality that I found myself more connected to.
But I just haven't.
So now, being pretty lonely over the last year with COVID-19 and not really having anything super substantial with any other woman, aside from my flings with her in about a year, I am wondering if I should just date her.
When envisioning a partner, I'd say she fits a lot of what I am looking for but also is by no means a perfect match or someone I could see myself marrying at this point.
Are my expectations for a partner too high? And should I just commit to a relationship with her even if am not 100% sure if I'd enjoy being with her at that level?
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