So far it seems like virginity or at least inexperience is a turn off
I saved myself for my first girlfriend and we were both 18 and she ended up cheating on me.well I was trying to mend a broken heart after all of that trying to improve myself and going to school and clubs and stuff she was out messing around with dude after dude and there is nothing wrong with it. It doesn't make me feel very undesirable to this day just the fact that she was able to do that and I will still getting rejected after being played by her.
I never felt like she owed me but I do hate that she made fun of my virginity after making me wait and it is not pleasant being rejected because you are a virgin.
and it only compounds itself because girls don't want to teach but a lot of relationships do unfortunately start with casual sex and a lot of girls don't want to teach it and experience do which I'm trying to respect you at the same time it makes it very hard to get motivated to even try to date again
And I know it's not every girl but it's getting harder to pick them out. Nice girl I got intimate with was nice and everything but we never went all the way.she's been with other men but she's also pretty inexperienced as she completely put all her weight on my penis and bent it. XD
I'm not opposed to learning more about my sexual side but I don't want it to be with just a random. Yet at the same time I feel like I'm falling behind because as a man gets older it becomes less tolerable if he is a virgin and it doesn't matter what his reasons are.
I never thought that I would have to sleep with a bunch of women in order to get the one I want to take me seriously and respect me but that seems like that's what it is nowadays.you can have amazing chemistry with a girl but if you don't have any experience then all that chemistry and nice fluffy feelings doesn't matter unless she's into you.
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