I have this coworker (don’t worry, it’s not at a career type business, just a side job I picked up) that I think is very attractive and basically wanted to know better.
We don’t work together too often but I usually try and make small talk when we do. One day I noticed she was wearing her hair down (she almost always has it up) and thought it looked nice so complimented her on it. She seemed surprised anyone noticed and since then has literally had her hair down every day I’ve seen her.
Once in the break room she even sat right behind me when other tables were open. But not sure if she just didn’t see the available spots or what.
So eventually I added her on Instagram and have started making some small talk. She definitely views most of my Instagram stories, and will reply to every message but the responses tend to be a little short.
By short I mean a full sentence (not just one word), and usually filled with emojis or exclamation points but not at all inquisitive in return if I ask a question.
Basically what I’m curious on (not too social media or socially savvy at all) is does keeping the hairstyle the same after the compliment mean anything? And does always viewing my story and responding sound like a good start? Or is this just something you would do with most coworkers?
Cause I tend to think if the roles were reversed I probably wouldn’t respond to each message and would avoid watching her story to make it clear I’m not into her. But I’m so bad with understanding women and social media that I’m not sure if I’m looking into it too much or not.
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