My ex messaged me last week, we’ve hardly spoken since our break up and he’s never initiated a conversation since we broke up over 1.5 years ago. He lives in the same town as me so I have spotted him a couple times and we once bumped into each other last January but that’s it. anyway he texted me saying he’s really sorry he hasn’t been around, he was really apologetic, saying he felt really bad that he was distant after we broke up but life had been a rollercoaster for him, i told him i forgave him and it was truly ok. he was never good at expressing his emotions but he’s been telling me about his life, opened up about how he’s pretty lonely and implied he wasn’t doing okay. when we were dating I’m pretty sure he was still depressed, he was battling anxiety and was very unhealthy in himself. He seems like he’s changed a lot though and worked on himself.
I thought I didn’t have feelings for him anymore - that I had healed but since he’s reached out I’ve been second guessing things. my heart is breaking for him knowing he’s so sad. I told him if he wanted to meet up we could and he thanked me for the offer and said the same to me, that he’s there if i want to meet but he’s not the type to reach out. i know him messaging me must’ve been hard for him and took a lot of courage and bravery. part of me really wants to see him, and be there for him because i know he’s feeling really alone and sad and i’m assuming that’s why he reached out because he knows i always cared for him and forever will and he can trust me because we shared something so intimate in the past and in the last year and a half i’d reach out every couple months asking how he was and just checking in.
i struggle to read between the lines in his messages but my question is what are some telltale signs your ex still likes you/misses you? honestly maybe not a good idea but i think if he asked me to come over, i would and if he kissed me, i’d kiss him back. i’m feeling quite conflicted with my emotions - struggling to know how he’s feeling or what I am... any advice welcome ❤️ I know I could never be in a relationship with him again though, our morals don’t line up and we’re just not compatible but I want to be there for him.
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