Hello good people of Reddit!
Wondering what I should do. I’ll trust your unbiased opinion.
Background: not trying to sound conceited I’ve been told that I’m “ the total package and out of his league” by his close friends. Speaking bluntly I’m probably an 8.5 and he’s a ~5~6. I don’t view it that way because I genuinely enjoy hanging out with him it’s less about looks more about the connection / sense of humor for me and he is wonderful.
I’ve been seeing this guy since November 2020 and he used to reserve Thursday night just for me every night until the holidays hit. He was adorable about it and would theme every date night - we would dress accordingly eat different food accordingly lol. We live in a big city and both of our families live out of town. When we resumed things in January seemed to go normally and progress well until about February. He’s been looking to buy a couple rental properties outside the city and didn’t get any bites and was feeling really depressed about it. He wouldn’t leave his place for a couple of weekends and wasn’t communicating with me. But we went on a couple more dates and things were fine. I told him how I felt when he did a disappearing act and he apologized genuinely and said when he’s really stressed and depressed he turns into a recluse and he said he’s actively working on that.
Anyways fast forward to March we had said I miss you to each other by then and seem to have a real emotional connection.
He left for a 2 week trip home to visit family and then a 3 week boys trip to Hawaii. On the trip the communication was minimal maybe chatting 2x a week but nothing super substantial. He just arrived back Tuesday 4/27 it’s Friday. He’s been sending me funny memes everyday on Instagram but no text or call to make any plans. I literally haven’t seen the guy since Mid March!
Idk what the eff to do. Should I wait it out? Or just write it off that he’s just not that into me. Ugh sucks to hear but I’m feeling really bummed out about it bc I thought this guy was a winner. I’ve laid off and let him come to me the last two weeks bc ive been frustrated with the situation as well as don’t want to keep coming at him if he’s just straight up not down anymore.
Anyways your honest opinions and advice would be appreciated !! Thank you !
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