Basically, I am afraid to be to nice and compliment them to much, because I'm afraid they will get some sick power trip and take advantage of me. Like I don't want to get to excited about things, because what if they just really like the attention I give them, rather than just like me. I'm not talking to this person anymore, but he sent me a screenshot of a pokemon on pokemon go and his pokedex was almost 100% complete and I really wanted to bring it up and say something, because I KNEW it would make him happy, because he loves pokemon, but I didn't, because I didn't want to look like a crazy love lady loon or something, but I am extremely observant and attentive to someone I care about. He also likes a nerdy tv show and I saw the c o o l e s t holographic pictures at hobby lobby and I so badly wanted to show them to him and wished that we were closer so I could just buy them for him. This is not abnormal behavior for me, I am like this with all my friends and family when I had them. I can see what people like and I know I should say something or do something, but I'm afraid to look creepy and/or get rejected. I want so badly to just be me, but I have been taken advantage of in the past so many times. I'm 23f
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