I [M20] met a girl [F19] on Bumble yesterday, good chat, I invited her out tomorrow night but she offered a counter date to a "birthday kickback party-ish" thing- do I accept?

Hi there. So yesterday I started talking to this girl over Bumble, good early chemistry. Decided to ask her out today for a bite to eat and to go up to this lake, however she instead asked if I wanted to go to this "birthday kickback party-ish" thing. Yes, that's the phrasing.

Asked to get food and go to it. I've never met this person. Or her friends. I feel like I'd be "intruding" on a birthday celebration for someone I don't know. I don't know if it's 'appropriate' for me to show up to that for someone I don't know. I'm also pretty introverted and don't go well in bigger social situations. Is it appropriate to get to know someone this way? I don't want to feel 'latched' on to her during the party but also actually want to talk to her, and get to know her.

How do I go about that?

EDIT: IM A DUMBASS AND MISSED PART OF HER TEXT- She wants to grab a bite to eat *beforehand* and then go to the kickback/party thing, to get to know each other. This is good. I'm 100% going now.

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