Back in January I matched with a guy on Hinge but due to Covid I had to return to my home country for a couple months. We never even got the chance to text that time because I wasn’t up for anything long distance.
In mid March this guy started texting me insistently through Hinge and then gave me his phone number so we could FaceTime. I was a little cautious at the beginning because I had just gotten over a “break-up”.
The guy was super cute and made me feel a little confident about what was going on. We FaceTimed almost daily and he would always say he wanted to see me ASAP and just hang out.
Just last week I got plane tickets to go to Miami, not to visit him but for other VISA matters, and I just thought it would be the perfect opportunity to meet him. He was super excited and was even sad that I was staying for too little.
1 day before the flight he called me and said he couldn’t wait to see me and he suggested we got together on Saturday (My flight was on Friday) because his sister needed some help over the house and her kids. I said it was ok, since I was going back to Miami in May to work. On Friday (the day of the flight) we spoke over the phone and he seemed super excited.
Then everything changed :(
I never got a text or call from him on Friday and his phone went on voicemail so I thought he was out of battery. Saturday same thing, I couldn’t reach him. So I texted him asking if out meeting was still up for later that night. 1 hour after my text he just responded me with I cant, had to stay with my sister. I was kind of mad but just got over it since I knew he was going to be helping his sister over the weekend. So I asked him when we would meet them and his answer was “May” (When I am supposed to be back)
Its Tuesday and I haven’t heard from him. No text, no call, nothing. I am confused af because not sure what could’ve changed in less that 24 hours. Should I wait for him to text me or reach out?
What are your thoughts on this?
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