My (24f) friend (24f) only started to get interested in guys recently (two years ago). Since then she had matched and talked to numerous guys and almost every time the same situation happens, they match, start talking and the guy really seems to like her and then she gets ghosted. She has gone out with only two guys and after 2 or 3 dates also got ghosted. Sometimes she would meet a guy at a club (before rona) and hook up a little bit, but it is always the same story.
She's not ugly, she's beautiful, hot, smart and nice, but she is quite tall (mby an issue, but tall guys ghosted too haha).
It is kinda hard for me to give her advice because we are fairly different and I mostly wouldn't act like her in those situations, but I always listen to her and give my opinion and brainstorm with her to try and figure out what might have happened. It's really mindblowing to me how many guys will ghost so shamelessly after acting like they are into her and getting her hopes up.
She is quite picky tho. My theory is that it's hard for her to find someone because she started dating late and now she has this teen-like mindset and approach to dating that most people her age have gone through in their teen years so it's hard to sync. She always gets too attached and develops feelings fast (even only through texting) and then gets really hurt when they ghost. She recently hooked up with my friend on a birthday party and he wasn't interested after that because he only wanted to have sex (which he didn't get) and now she is really depressed because she thinks she "must be terrible since everybody runs away from her"(her words). :(((
Why do guys ghost like that? Is being inexperienced unattractive? Does anybody have a similar experience?
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