So it’s been 2 months since I met this guy and got into a situationship . We moved really quickly and honestly only met up to have sex. He said he wasn’t looking for anything serious and i agreed and said i was okay with us just having sex and being friends. I’d get really annoyed how’d he ask me to come over for quickies or ask me last minute to see him, but I still went out of loneliness. I feel as though he’s just a dopamine hit for me. I feel a slight sense of happiness and excitement when I’m with him and idk why. There are times when I wouldn’t hear from him for days . I’d lurk on his social media accounts, but never followed him or anything because I didn’t want him to think I was a lurker (which I am lol) but he randomly found me and followed me on Instagram and messaged me saying he lost his contacts and i sent him my number back and It made me a little happy to think he was thinking of me and found me online. I know this is so sad and a toxic way of thinking since it’s the bare minimum. But anyways we chatted and met up once after that and then he ghosted me. It’s been a week since I heard from him, but he’s always watching my Instagram stories and is usually the first to view it. I don’t understand him. I’ve caught feelings for him and I’m finding myself just sinking down a path of destruction. I don’t think he respects me and he never tries to make time for me at all. I’ve been lying to myself trying to go with the flow and act like I’m okay with just casual sex but I’m not...does anyone understand his actions ?
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