How do I (17M) quit stressing over guys potentially trying to go for my girlfriend (18F)?
I have been struggling a lot with this recently. My girlfriend has a lot of guy friends that she talks to—she’s not the type to go around and flirt with every guy she meets, she’s actually really shy when meeting new people. But.. for many reasons shes really popular with guys, and she’s been telling me about how her guy friends have been inviting her to go talk or get drinks
For example, her guy friend from church who is four years older than her wants to get her an expensive item in return for him giving her college advice. In the past, the same guy invited her to get food and they drove around—all her friends said he invited her to a date but she wasnt aware it was one. I feel like no one just gets someone something expensive in return for being able to go out and talk with them without being into them.
Then she also has a friend who invited her to walk around his college campus with him a while back. And another friend that picked her up from her house today out of the blue to work on music (for church) but insisted on buying her drinks.
Now I love my girlfriend and she shows me her love all the time. However, we’ve talked about this issue and we eventually got to the point where she admitted she does enjoy attention from guys. She said she would tell guy friends that she was dating me, even though she feared they would stop paying attention to her, but it just seems to me like she still is looking for validation in the wrong ways.
Am i overthinking this? I think because i dont know her guy friends, im fearful of their intentions.
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