Hey guys. Known a girl (27F, 28M) for 8-10 months but recently started going on dates. We have been on 2 dates which went well (in my opinion, who knows what she thinks). We had to wait 3-4weeks before our 3rd date as our schedules just didn’t fit but we penned a date. We don’t text that much in between dates - think we both prefer to leave the talking to real life.
Anyway, morning of our 3rd date - she cancels saying she’s been ill. I offer to reschedule before I leave the country for Christmas/New Yrs but she says she thinks there’s no time until I’m back. We text a little and she basically just leaves me on read even though it wasn’t an end to the conversation. Couple days later though she texts me before I fly off the usual about having a safe trip etc and suggests a couple places we can go to when I’m back. I of course say that sounds good. I’m out of the country so couple days ago I drop her a text saying that I hope her work is not too affected and that she’s keeping safe given all the covid spreading in NYC which is where we’re based. She leaves me on read again.
I really like her but I think I’m done bothering with her as I don’t want to invest time and energy into someone who doesn’t respect me or show interest the same way. I’m obviously not going to initiate any texts with her anymore because I dont want to double text and I think deserve better.
What I’m interested in knowing is - do you guys think I’m doing the right thing? Am I overthinking things and should I be giving her a chance? If my friend told me this I’d tell him not to waste his time and energy anymore as she seems fickle and uninterested - so that’s what I’m doing but wanted to get peoples thoughts
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