So I met this guy recently (like a week and a half ago), the first guy I've actually gone out with since I ended things with my ex of 5 years. I don't have a lot of experience casually dating, mostly I'm first friends with a guy and then things develop from there.
I kinda accidentally had sex with him on the first night because I was drunk and we had chemistry. I stayed the night and a couple of days later we hung out again at his place and did the whole thing over again. He's so tender and complimentary and fun when we were together, and I think because of that my feelings grew too quickly, and obviously, we were intimate too fast.
Since then, I've really been the one texting him first (not daily or anything crazy), and he hasn't tried to make plans, which hasn't made me feel very great. But basically, if he does, how do I redefine the relationship to go from the "Netflix and Chill" bs to actual planned dates? Because I understand I set a precedent by going home with him on the first night and stuff, but I have no idea what he's thinking of us as.
He told me he likes me and wants to see me, but since last week he has made no attempt to do so. It seems to me his actions and his words aren't lining up and I don't like that. Or am I overthinking this whole thing and it's way too early to be anxious about this kind of stuff? I hate dating lol.
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