How does that person make you feel?
Do they make you feel insecure? Do they make you feel like they’ll stop responding unless you send a perfectly crafted message? Do they make you feel unimportant/not a priority? Do they make you feel unattractive?
If you answered yes to any of the above (or another negative emotion) then you should raise your standards and walk away. Do not lie to yourself and accept it because the other person is just so attractive/successful/desirable, and you’ll never find another like them. Believe it or not, there are attractive people out there who WANT to make you feel good.
I spent years with a girl who made me feel emasculated, incompetent, unworthy, and that I should feel lucky to even be with her.
Fast forward to now, and I’m seeing a girl who makes me feel so damn good about myself. She always compliments me, makes time for me, praises my achievements, helps me with little things, makes me feel comfortable to be my self and likes me for that. The difference is night and day.
As a guy, I think it’s easy for us to fall into the trap of putting up with someone’s bullshit because you think she’s the hottest girl you’re going to get.
Do yourself a favor and do not give these types of people the time of day.
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