I haven't seen this girl in almost a year. She knows I have feelings for her and told me a few months ago through text how she only wants to be good friends and nothing more (please note this was through text and she hasn't seen me in a year so maybe she forgot how I look in person/act?). Yesterday I finally saw her in person and asked her to brunch. She said yes. We went in her car, and we were talking. Joking, Laughing, the vibe was GREAT. You could tell she was into me and she definitely is attracted to me. So we're driving, she's talking, and all of a sudden her phone goes off in the car on Bluetooth. It's her boyfriend. The vibe instantly was killed and it got awkward for like a long 30 seconds until I started to bring the conversation back up. Even though we were both avoiding what we had both just seen. Like an elephant in the room, nobody wants to talk about it. She declined the call immediately. We just continued to brunch and spoke. About an hour later, she dropped me back off at home and she said she wants me to text her more, etc. She texted me last night and we spoke for a little. I wanted to ask her to ice skating tomorrow but then again, she does have a boyfriend? How should I approach this? Should I even bother asking? Should I ask but bring up how she has a boyfriend so I would only be taking her as friends? Or should I avoid this "friends" thing? Do you think she is into me? What would you do in this situation? Also, what do you think was going through her head now that someone like me came along in her life? I REALLY like this girl and it broke me emotionally internally to see she has a boyfriend.
Thank you for reading this. And thank you even more if you're willing to help. Merry Christmas.
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