Have you ever had a mutual connection right off the bat with someone and it scares both of you?
We talked for 2 months and finally met in person. He and I sat in each others arms that night talking about how scared we were of how good this feels between us. This was before we even had sex. After that, I couldn’t get him off me. He wanted to cuddle and stay entangled with my body all the night we slept. When he opened his eyes in the morning. He kept saying he couldn’t believe this was happening and would just pull me closer and kiss on me.
Since then, we’ve been kind of keeping our distance. He has been and so have I. I want to see him again but part of me is super nervous. Like it feels scary because we’re both serious. We’re both used to casual relationships and just not being with partners who want what we want.
When we talk on the phone now, we’re both acting super shy. It’s not him but me too. I’m confused and understand at the same time.
Is this normal? Have you had such a strong connection with someone that you’re kind of scared afterwards, even though you’re getting exactly what you want? I don’t know how to shake this.
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