This guy I’ve been going out with (M29) is very sweet, very attractive and seems to be genuinely into me but he has mentioned several times in passing that he has been with a lot of women. Like dozens and dozens. I really don’t want to judge him based on that but I cannot get it out of my head, because if this guy has been with so many women and is still single, what can I possibly bring to the table that’s new or special to him? Am I going to be just another number? Is he just going through the motions? I cannot help but feel insecure, even though I don’t want to and I’m very happy with him.
I want a relationship with him and he seems to be on the same page, even though we haven’t had the talk yet. He basically treats me like his girlfriend - talks to me every day, plans very thoughtful and fun dates, initiates both communication and going out, is affectionate with me, asks for my opinion about things etc. I feel like he has genuine feelings toward me and might be worth trying to build something with. However, for that to happen, I know I need to change my attitude about his past.
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